*Unfinished Blog

Life Like a Cubik - Money Matters

I look at life like solving a cube (cubik) puzzle.

Cubik is a cube with a lot of colours on each surface...and u have to solve it by aligning the colours togethers.

Some might try spending long, long time spinning and turning just to align one colour or one line on one particular side. Can't really blame anyone for this thinking, it seems like the simplest and quickest solution to solve it. I'm sure we were the same when we first played it.

As I understood more about the cubik's foundation, I came to realise that I need to take into consideration that the cubik have 4 Dimensions...not just one; and spending days on understanding it demonstrated that I've really mastered something great.

Now back to our story about earning money the easy way or the hard way...i will relate my cubik story to it. Look at life in a 4D manner(money, relationship, career, leisure), if you focus on money. You will try to align a few lines in a cube on a particular face...* however, the cube is designed so u can't perfectly fit every colour into dimension without fitting the other colours on the opposite side correspondingly*

Therefore, when you try to move around with ur money...to fit into other dimension (either relationship or career...etc). It is most likely that you would mess up with the other colours in your money section. Furthermore, it seems like the easiest and direct approach to solve your problems in life, so you continue to mess around it a few more times * without seeking for understanding*

So what's gonna happen...*i think you could have guess*

So tell me, if one understood the foundation when solving the puzzle (at worst, it's in a mess), I would be better off.

Just focusing on the simplest and the only way one thinks it easier to get along it; one would end up messing up and not able to get things aligned again.

Life is complicated as it is like solving a cubik, but you want to be different...you need to start playing with the cubik.

No more nice guy

Went out for drinks with Brit and Penny...Penny was telling me her experiences with ABCs (Australian Born Chinese) and how she felt uncomfortable fitting herself in. She felt that she didn't get the respect she deserved and was constantly subject to judgment for the way she speaks in English.

I told her that we're all riding the same boat and that there are rules when it comes to communications and socialising...the sooner you accept and adapt to them, the easier it is for you to work you way through life in Aussie land.

For a moment there, I realised how hard it was for Louise to socialise with classmates or my uni friends...and I felt sorry for not being able to be there for her back then.

Furthermore, Adrian told me I should've let go of my grudge against her...I think it makes sense to make up and just keep in touch now and then.

Back In KL

Ok...came back on the 7th of February and today's the 14th (Valentine's day). So to all the couples out there, enjoy while it still last.

For bachelors like me, welcome to the party...keep fishing until you get the right fish. *it takes time because the sea is so wide*

Being a Big Brother

Sometimes, I wondered why I didn't get along with my big brother when I was younger. I think I finally understood the reason behind it.

I'm looking after my little cousin but he's from China, I think he consider me as a "brother" rather than a cousin. He came back to Sydney recently to study and my uncle is too busy with his work to look after him. Therefore, he always sticks around me...since I have common interest with him when it comes to hobbies.

But I never had a little brother to handle with...never knew how it felt being a big brother. I guess in the beginning it was hard to get along with this new experience but as time passed by I realised what it really meant to be able to look after another person younger than you.

This is why I guess my bro wasn't too happy with me when I was younger, I was intrusive and naive. Sorry bro...I know I was wrong, although I learn from a hard way but I am happy to realise how terrible I was back in those days. All I can say: "Although I am ready to learn, but I am not always ready to be taught."

But my little bro here is way easier to handle than me...I guess I will be having some fun with him after all.


PS: Although there's a bigger bed for him in another room. He likes sleeping in my room for some reason.